We can so downplay certain days in the calender….. we pass them by, we believe that we’re too liberated to be bound or connected and yet in them is meaning, richness and purpose….

One of things I love about NOT giving up things this Lent is using the forty-ish days till Easter as a journey. A time of increased personal examination.

During this Lenten Season, I’m asking myself……

1. Where is there forgiveness and grace needed? (like extra dollups!!)
2. Where is a (soul) blockage that would keep the Holy Spirit from moving freely?
3. Where are the places where there isn’t resurrection life right now? (stale, stuck or stagnating places!!)

All of it (even already) has sharpened my hunger and desire for greater intimacy with Jesus! The preparation for Easter could and should be a time to improve and renew your relationship with the Risen Christ! So let Easter result in daily resurrection (now!!)

“… So that your faith might not rest on men’s wisdom, but on God’s power” 1 Corinthians 2:5

The season of preparation has begun.


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made me smile, at it’s accuracy and truth!

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“Community is the place where the person you least want to live with, always lives. Henri Nouwen

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Imaginatively exploring questions of faith, responsibility, odd behavior, dental phenomena, academia, mortality, Judaism,… and how they all might combine: ‘A Serious Man’ is the new film from Academy Award-winning writer/directors Joel and Ethan Coen, that explores these intersections.

It’s the story of an ordinary man’s search for clarity in a universe dated 1967, orbiting the world of Larry Gopnik as a physics professor, having been informed by his wife Judith that she is leaving him. She has fallen in love with one of his more pompous acquaintances, Sy Ableman who seems to her a more substantial person than the feckless Larry. Larry’s unemployable brother Arthur  is sleeping on the sofa, his son Danny is a discipline problem and a shirker at Hebrew school, and his daughter Sarah is withdrawing-regular money from his wallet in order to save up for a nose job. While these lives tumble forward the struggle, for sense, meaning and direction is Larry’s chief pursuit. Larry seeks advice from three different rabbis. Can anyone help him cope with his afflictions and become a righteous person – a mensch – a serious man?

“How does God speak to us? It’s a good question.”

This “serious” question lies at the heart of the Coen’s black comedy, and on the lips of its feeble, yet sympathetic lead Stuhlbarg. Larry is averaging along with aspirations and yet within the space of days, his life accelerates into a train wreck. Shadowing the biblical figure of Job, the order of Larry’s world is flipped upside down. Searching intently for answers, Larry turns to his three rabbis, whose advice is anything but clear. Sadly, the knowledge these rabbis have of God is mystical and experiential, and lacks scriptural rooting. But the Bible gives us so much more clarity and insight into the nature of God’s relationship with the world than this film would have us believe. Though we only know God and his ways “in part” – seeing “in a mirror dimly” this side of heaven, God has revealed to us the big picture of God’s purposes in the world, and in the detail of our lives. It might not be a complete revelation, and we might not comprehend his plans in every little detail, but his revelation is indeed true and sufficient for our lives.

On one hand, the Coen’s brilliant creation of Jewish suburban dystopia and mid-life despair in the 60s is a very serious film indeed. In this darkly comedic film there are pepperings of  truly absurd scenes (e.g. Danny’s stoned Bar Mitzvah), the opening subtitled parralel parable, and the hilarious dialogue (“Hush-hush”, “Look at the parking lot, Larry”!). As with most of the Coens’ films, the sublime and ridiculous seamlessly go hand in hand; showcasing their brilliance and capturing the absurdity of life without God.

With the impersonal and distant God of Gopnik and his three rabbis, it is ridiculous to,….

“…receive with simplicity everything that happens to you”. There is haunting apologetics in the questions and comment throughout this piece:-

‘When all the truth you believe lies, and all hope within you dies then what…?’

“Why does God make us feel the questions if we cannot know the answers?”

Christians know with certainty that God has spoken for us in Jesus, and therefore (whatever we maybe feeling) we are always loved. Life is imbued with meaning, even amidst moments of pain, suffering and frustration because we know that through Jesus, God graciously and personally (is always) working in all for the good of his people. Coen’s movie is genius, my first and best new movie of the decade!! With an intelligent script, a sharp, yet unknown cast, spare cinematography and immaculate design, it is reflective, thought-provoking and stimulatingly brilliant. You guessed it: I loved it!!

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One of the nominated (many) things on Noah & Esthers list for our time together was, a movie and popcorn! Maurice Sendak’s Where the Wild Things Are is an all-time favourite child’s books. As a child, I resonated with the character of Max, the boy sent to bed without his supper, imagining his own world of wild creatures, over which he rules as a king. Like him, I used to let my imagination run wild, drawing maps of other worlds and inventing mythical tales, but at the same time knowing when to return home for my proverbial supper.

So I was pretty intrigued to see how Spike Jonze would translate this slim masterpiece into a full-length blockbuster…..as it was simply nothing like the trailer! I wasn’t disappointed. I mean it would be easy to bemoan the fact that Max’s bedroom doesn’t morph into a jungle, or that at 101 minutes it feels a touch bloated with some challenging and edgy one too many episodes of skylarking. Max’s exodus from the coldness of the real world to the bright imaginary land of the Wild Things and back again beautifully captures the bittersweet transition from childhood to adulthood. Jonze nails it with spare, natural acting from Max Records and Catherine Keener, quirky voicework by an inspired cast, an energetic score, exquisite cinematography, set design, seamless use of costuming, CGI. and the beautiful landscape of Australia for much of this. The resulting movie is delightful, wistful and fun, without being overly nostalgic, sentimental or manufactured. Though through the eyes and lens of an adult, this is a genuine, charming celebration and commiseration of childhood.

At the heart of the movie is Judith’s line to Max, “It’s hard being a family”. As we see illustrated in the film’s opening, families promise so much – love, care, unconditional acceptance – yet so rarely deliver. Without over psychologising it, Max’s imaginary island away from the pain of his broken, dysfunctional family life, is a place for him to safely work through what it means to belong to a family unit and care for others. It’s a chance for him to see life without himself at its centre as king, with each of the Wild Things functioning like emotional elements of his self and his existence to be negotiated. Though the underlying philosophy of Sendak and Jonze’s work may be light years from a Christian worldview, Where the Wild Things Are still rings true on a number of levels. Though we all imagine ourselves as kings in charge and control of our lives, it’s patently clear that this is not the case. Almost seven billion kings on one small planet does not make for a functional existence.

Like Max – “a boy pretending to be a wolf pretending to be a king” - we’re all faking it as rulers! None of us has the power and ability to truly “make the sadness stay away”. And the sooner we each realize the truth that the crown is not ours to wear, but our creator God’s, the sooner we will be able to make sense of the dysfunctional nature of our lives. The truth is our families will always disappoint us, being part of them will always be hard, but being a member of God’s family through Jesus is the greatest blessing we can ever experience.

Watch out for the ’seven chubby Douglas’s request!??’ and ‘Bob & Terry the non-judgemental owls’!! Also this is a stunning linked website, that I also liked very much too! This movie is surprising, beautiful and profound…

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do you believe your tomorrow and your next year can and will be better and brighter than your today?

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Well, it’s that time of the year where people share their “best of” lists…. and I’m a real sucker for these! I’ll likely post a couple myself but I thought I’d start with the somewhat predictable book nominations!! It’s interminably difficult for me to answer with one or even three, of my best reads in the year past…(its also intentionally a diverse list) excluding a couple of novels read! So here’s my simple question,…. and then my answerssssss!

* What was the best book you’ve read this year?

Messy Spirituality by Mike Yaconnelli, Dissident Discipleship by David Augsburger, Feel by Matthew Elliott, Angry Conversations with God by Susan Isaacs, A Permanent Becoming by Alan Mann, The Beautiful Life by Simon Parke, Dying to Live by Clive Calver, Leading on Empty by Wayne Corderio, The Starfish Manifesto by Wolfgang Simpson, Anything by Fredrick Buechner!! The Prodigal God by Tim Keller and 2159AD: A History of Christianity by Craig Borlase.

oooooops and late remembering… an epic-read: Re:Jesus by Frost & Hirsch…. don’t miss this one!

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…when you see this?


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I don’t know about you but, I’m planning to have a really great new year…..!! In so many ways and with lots blossoming and possible: I’m really excited: new chapter, new year, new start….!

Writer Lester Robert Bittel said, “Good plans shape good decisions. That’s why good planning helps to make elusive dreams come true.”

Leaders seem to recognize the importance of planning but the majority don’t consider themselves to be planners. So here’s a simple principle for those who struggle: this is my top tip!! – plan your planningWhy not take this opportunity here as we head to the end of the year to plug in the times you will plan in 2010: if so you’ll have greater certainty for a best year.

Here’s what I would recommend….

  • Plan your year once a year!
  • Plan your quarter once a quarter
  • Plan your month once a month
  • Plan your week once a week
  • Plan your day once a day ( 30 mins makes all the difference!!)

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